It's Official...Provisionally!!

Yesterday I received my letter from BYU that said I was "provisionally accepted" into the Bachelors of General Studies program! Yeah, me!   To be formally accepted, I have to complete a Student Development course, which is basically a class to help prepare me for the drastic changes I am going to have to make to balance school work and my "normal life".  I had just finished a class like this in the LPN program, so I don't expect it to be too difficult.  It will cover things like study habits, time management and stuff like that.  Anyway, just wanted to document that I am on my way to finishing my bachelors!  I'm actually a lot closer than I had thought.  Psychology will be challenging, but I feel that right now it is the right path for me.  It has been an up and down journey to get to this place, but isn't that what life is all about?  I'm excited to get started on this next phase of my life.  I don't suppose I thought I'd be a BYU student again at 44, but learning should be a life-long endeavor and what better place to do it than at the "Y"?  Hey, I'm gonna need a couple of BYU t-shirts now, huh?  Guess I'd better get to the bookstore! 

I have a question....

I love Mustangs.  I want a Mustang.  Everytime I see a Mustang on the highway I say, "Ooo, I love that car!"  Except when I see an orange one....  On Saturday, we were driving home from the mall and as I looked in my rear view mirror, what do I see but an orange mustang speeding up behind me, getting ready to pass and instead of saying to myself, "Ooo, a  Mustang!" , This thought pops into my mind instead, "If you are going to buy a Mustang, why would you buy one the color of a Cheeto?  I mean, I'm just sayin'."  As it passes, I verbalize my thought and my daughters laugh and say that that would be a funny Facebook status.  I decided to write about it in here.  I hope I didn't offend anyone.  I mean, I love Cheetos...I love Mustangs, I just don't think they were meant to marry.....

Hey! Why is it so quiet around here?

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       All I can hear right now is the washing machine.  No Netflix in the background, no "Mom, can you get me some....", no sounds of stuffy noses, just the washing machine.  It's a little eerie.....and lonely.  After 11 days of sick kids at home, I'm home alone.  I hate it.  Not that I want my kids to be sick, mind you, but I have never adjusted to being home alone during the day.  I stay busy with various things, but I have to say, I really like having my kids around.   Is that wrong?  Does that make me crazy? Maybe a little.  I know a lot of women love the free time to get things done.  I do like having time to quilt and read, don't get me wrong.  I know younger moms look forward to the day when there won't be little ones with unending demands.  I was one of those younger moms.  Now that I have that freedom, I have found it can be hard to fill productively.  I chose to be a stay at home mom.  But now that my kids are older, they only need me to "stay at home" when they are sick.  Which isn't very often.  Anyway, enough whining!  That's why I'm going to finish my bachelors and go after a career! There's still a lot of me left and I have a lot to offer.  My role as a mother is changing and like it or not, I am going to have to change, too.

ANNIE!

Annie has been sick for the past week and it has made me remember the days when she was little and we were joined at the hip.  When she was this size, she would hardly let me out of her sight and I cherish those memories.  We were like a mama koala bear and her baby.  She also reminded me of Curious George and how he fit just right in the Man with the Yellow Hat's arms.  Those were good days.  I miss them.  When she was in preschool, we would watch Curious George on PBS together before she left.  That became a special ritual for us, and yesterday she asked if we could snuggle on the couch and watch the Curious George movie together.  It warmed my heart to spend that time with my little, sick Annie.  We had a good time watching the movie together, remembering the funny parts. It breaks my heart when my kids are sick, but when they are, they need me in a way that is different than in the usual way.  Of course Iwant her to get better so I can get back to my routines, but in the meantime, I'll put aside my chores so I can snuggle and

watch movies with her and just be there for her, to give her comfort and love.

FINALLY!

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Our oldest daughter, Lindsay, has been in the show choir since she was a freshman.  When she tried out for it, I hardly knew what she was doing.  The girls had always played soccer and run track.  Not a dance or singing lesson or class EVER.  So when she told me she had made the show choir, we really didn't know what we had gotten ourselves into.  What we had gotten ourselves into was a whole new way of life and something really wonderful.  The first time we saw her perform, we were completely blown away.  We had no idea where this child had come from.  She absolutely blossomed up there on stage.  It was like magic.  We became part of a big family and a booster group like no other. All of a sudden we were traveling to places like Piqua, Ohio and driving hours and hours and watching up to 12 show choirs a weekend and were just as crazy a group of fans as any football crowd.  That first year, Red Hot (the name of the show choir) were Grand Champion at their first competition.  They didn't win that honor again until the State Competition, when they were named State Champions.  It was amazing.  However, over the next two years, they didn't win one competition.  It was very frustrating for everyone.  They had gone through a director and choreographer change and morale suffered greatly.  During Lindsay's junior year, Natalie and Emily decided to try out and that really surprised me!  My shy little twins, who barely spoke in public until they were 9 were going to perform in the show choir?  Well, they showed me and made it, and they too have absolutely come out of their shells and have become amazing performers. They literally have transformed.
Well, this year things have changed.  The director Lindsay had her freshman year has come on board as an assistant and her son, who was in the choir as a senior when Lindsay was a freshman is the choreographer, and the show choir is phenomenal this year.  They have progressively gotten stronger each competition, finishing as 2nd runner-up, 1st runner-up and finally this past weekend as Grand Champion.  It was awesome to see all their hard work finally pay off.  I'm especially excited for Lindsay who has come full circle.  I know they now have their eye on the State Championship, but they still have 2 competitions before States.  This win just meant so much to everyone.  I had to write at length about it.  Thanks for "listening".

Valentine Flowers!

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  We had a really nice Valentine's Day around here, with lots of valentines, candy and as you can see, beautful flowers.  I love Valentine's Day!  I love flowers.  I love the colors.  I love chocolate.  I love good food.  I love expressing my love to all the valentines in my life.  I'm so grateful to have so many people in my life that I love and who love me.  I'm especially thankful for the most important valentine I have and that is my sweet husband, Mr. Schwendiman, who brought me roses and expressed his feeling in a beautiful card.  We both feel blessed to have each other to go through this sometimes bumpy life together, and not a day goes by that I don't thank my Heavenly Father for giving me such a good man. I know it takes work to make a marriage succeed and I hope I am always willing to make the effort it takes to have an eternal marriage.  Hope you all had a Happy Valentines Day with your honey! 

The Latest Addition to my Cookbook Collection

Yeah, I know what you're thinking, because I thought it, too- Why would a mother of 5 daughters buy a cookbook about cooking for men and boys? Well, of course, Amazon knows a lot about me, but they don't know I only have girls, so when they recommended it to me, I was intrigued. I figured it was worth a look , so I read several reviews and ordered it. The more I thought about it, the more sense it made. The Schwendiwomen are NOT wimpy eaters! We feed hungry missionaries. We have started feeding boyfriends . One day I will feed sons-in-law. Scott prefers meat and potatoes over quiche any day. We generally don't eat froufrou food. Yep, I think I'm gonna like this book! Follow up will be forthcoming!

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Yesterday was one of THOSE days ...

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     With two sick kids at home and not feeling so well myself, I knew dinner was not going to get made by anyone in THIS house, so I knew I needed a Plan.  After a day of Netflix, (thank heavens for Netflix), I started to review my options.  There was always mac and cheese, cereal or sandwiches, but that just wasn't gonna cut it for the big girls or Scott.  The usual fast food or pizza wasn't quite right either.  We were in need of comfort food that would fill up the healthy people in the house, too.  Like lightening it hit me!  BOB EVANS!  Yes! And they have carry out now!  Woo Hoo!  So, with a few clicks, I was able to order a down home cooked meal of roast beef, mashed potatoes, gravy, and hot rolls and to top it all off a WHOLE French.Silk.Pie. 
Ahh,
 comfort food!

It's Official, I'm addicted......

....to scarves. This is my collection. Well, most of it. And I think it would be normal if it was collected over a few years, but this number of scarves, which will remain unknown, even to me, was accumulated in about 8 weeks. I went nuts! I love scarves! I can't pass them up!  I walk into a store and I immediately head for the scarves.  I checked ebay, amazon, etsy, even Walmart!  In fact, some of my prettiest scarves have come from Walmart....for $5!  I love it!  I've never really had a collection before.  And one that is so fun to use and share!  I love it when the girls ask, "Mom, can I borrow this scarf?"  I wear a different one everyday.  And they dress up a boring sweater and skirt wonderfully for church!  Do you have something that you love that you've started to collect or would like to?  I'd love to hear about it!

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Are-n't they lov-lee?

I've been playing with PhotoShop on my phone while waiting at the doctor's, and didn't this come out pretty?
I think it is pretty fun that I can do that on a cell phone.  Obviously I am impressed with technology.  Just ignore me if that bores you!  I'm from the old school and I'm easily dazzled by new gadgets and stuff!

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The Zen of Washing Dishes

     Our dishwasher has been out of commission. For. Three. Months. So, we've had to use our back up dishwasher in the meantime. That would be me. The first time the d/w sprung a leak I sprung into action and let Scott know in no uncertain terms I would not be washing dishes by hand, and that the dishwasher needed to be fixed ASAP!   I then proceeded to spend a small fortune ( much to his chagrin) on paper goods . Needless to say the dishwasher got fixed rather quickly.  This second time, however, I didn't respond that way.  Still not sure why, but I didn't.  Instead, I calmly did the dinner dishes that night, and to my surprise, I found it strangely relaxing.  I found the hot water soothing, the bubbles washing away concerns and it gave me quiet time to think.  Ever since then, I haven't minded washing the dishes by hand , and to Scott's delight, I am not buying paper goods, nor am I nagging him to fix the dishwasher!  Will the dishwasher ever get fixed?  I don't know, but in the meantime, I'll enjoy the bubbles!

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Easy Life Tips

  I came across a strange picture on my phone today.  It was a screen shot that said "Easy Life Tips".  I have no idea how it got there, but the idea intrigued me and inspired me to begin my own list of  tips.  I thought this picture of our yard taken in the spring is a good depiction of the "easy life", with the hammock and all, and so, enjoy the green grass and sunshine for awhile, while purusing my list.  If you're out there, I'd like to hear your tips for the easy life, or easy tips for life, or however you interpret it! 

Julie's Easy Life Tips

1.  Be Nice.

2.  Take Naps.

3. See the glass as half full.

4.  Let the little stuff slide.

5. Be the first one to say "Hi".

So there are my first 5 tips.  I'm sure there will be more to follow, so stay tuned!  Be sure to leave me a couple of your own tips if you're out there!!

Blessings

     Last night the missionaries from our church came over for dinner and we had a really nice visit with them.  They are both top-notch Elders.  I'd like to have both of them as sons-in-laws someday if that were possible! Anyway, as always, they leave with a message, and the message last night was gratitude.  That's been coming up a lot lately around me.  I think I need to be more grateful for the things that Ihave been given.  I am going to start my gratitude journal again and I think I'll do mini blog entries with my phone so I can snap a quick picture and jot down a few words and document a blessing in my life every day.  I know they are all around me.  I just need to wake up and see them.  Elder Brown had us go around the table and just say something we were grateful for.  He was grateful to be a missionary.  Natalie was grateful for her family.  Scott was grateful for me and that we were married in the temple.  Kellie was grateful that she was brought to us from the hospital.  Annie was grateful for the scriptures.  Emily was grateful for the gospel.  I was grateful that Scott had made it home in time to share the meal with us because it meant a lot to me that he was there.  And Elder Pirir was grateful for our Savior, Jesus Christ.  Just saying one blessing really brought the spirit into our home.  Imagine if we all made it a daily habit to remember our blessings on a larger scale?  I feel as we strive to bring the spirit more fully in our lives, it will help us in other areas we might be struggling in.  I know I need its influence as I raise my children and try to improve my marriage.  I am going to try to invite the spirit to be more a part of my life each day by counting my blessings.

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My Title of Liberty

     Untill school starts,  I have no idea which direction I want this blog to go in, so I am just going to write from my heart and write about what is on my mind.  Today, I am pondering a quote I heard on Sunday which came from, of all places, Alice in Wonderland.  It's where Alice is at the fork in the road and she is not sure which way to go. She asks the Cheshire Cat and he says, "Well, it depends on where you want to end up.  If you don't know that, then it doesn't matter which way you go."   I have really been pondering that these past few days.  I've been thinking about it and how it concerns Lindsay and college.  I've been thinking about it and how it concerns our family.  We have been through a rough 4-5 years and we have let a lot slide.  We are actually doing pretty well considering.  But we have let some of the most important things fall to the bottom of our to do list....and I never reach the bottom of my to do list, do you?  Back when the older girls were little we lived our Stake Title of Liberty close to perfect.  The Stake Title of Liberty states, "Families Pray Together Daily.  Husbands and Wives Pray Together Daily.  Families Read the Scriptures Together Daily.  Have Family Home Evening Weekly.  Attend Church as a Family Weekly.  Fast with a Purpose Monthly.  Fathers Interview each Child Monthly.  Husbands and Wives go on a Date Weekly."  I made this quilt at that time and our life was one of peace.  We did very well for several years.  Then all heck broke loose (ie: Scott got sick) and slowly we stopped having family scriptures, and family prayer and family home evening became a once a month thing and now its something we do so rarely Annie has to ask what it is. Scott and I stopped praying together.  Why?  We still believe all of these things are important.  We still have testimonies of the gospel.  We still go to church every week as a family (although Scott had a hard time coming).  I taught seminary all through this time, and we would go to the temple when we could.  What happened to the little things?  We would start and stop, start and stop.  It has been such a struggle.  But where do we want to end up?   I know we want to end up in the celestial kingdom together as a family.  When Scott got sick he lost his ability to lead our family and it was all I could do to keep our family together. Now that things are better, we have to start again.  I have to have a different game plan.  So here's my plan.  Since we are all never together anymore, I had 3 family prayers today!  I'll have 2 scripture studies a day and we'll shoot for 2 FHE's a month, probably on Sunday.  I'll try to have mom/daughter dates with each girl once every 6 weeks.  Date nights usually happen, so that's good.  We need to work on fasting, but I should probably work on that myself first.  Lastly we always go to church, so at least we are doing that one!   I know my efforts will be blessed and our family will be stronger for us trying to be obedient.  Satan will be trying to tear me down every step of the way, but I know I can do this.  These are simple things.  They don't take much time and yet the dividends will be great.  I feel very strongly that I have to do this and that I can do this.  My girls need to know my testimony is real and that these things are important.